.Friday, December 29, 2006 ' 7:25 PM Y
There is a chinese saying, 江山难改，本性难移. This proverb (or whatever that is) is so damn right. Yes. And i mean it. hmm...i am not venting my anger on this entry, but i just wanna voice out my opinions in words.
If a person refuses to change, then no matter what u say to him, he will still continue to act his usual way and insist on his own reasons (whatever crap that is). And by all these actions, it reflects very well on a person. Despite of how thoughtful you are to understand him, and the numerous chances you had given to him, it doesn't seems to work out, problems still remain unsolved. Why isst so? I believe if a person is smart enough to get ur hint that u are very sensitive to a particular behaviour, he should not act like that. Or, if he knows what is wrong and hence be able to understand more about that person, he should at least make an attempt to change and then SUSTAIN this behaviour. There are only three answer to why he never seems to change. Firstly, this is his natural behaviour and he is too stubborn, so he refuses to change. Secondly, he knows that he is in the wrong and what is so wrong, but he refuses to make an attempt. He only changes just for once after the big quarrel, then after that, he is back to square. Or thirdly, he is simply too DUMB.
I am speaking out of my own experience. But till date, i still cannot figure out the answer. Why can't these people just be as thoughtful and smart like me! I mean i can't force them to be like me. But if i need to force a person to do something, and not him doing it naturally, then i think it is too meaningless. Really. I have no words for you. I am lousy when it comes to reasoning out with you. I guess. Hope you had a nice time these few days. =)
